Many people look at happy, long relationships and roll their eyes. They believe one failed relationship or being single for awhile automatically means that love is officially done for them and they’re going to die alone. I’d have to say I’m the complete opposite. I look at happy, strong couples with praise. It lets me know that they still exist and hope is always out there for new loves to form. I think that’s the bitter sweet thing about life. You never know what’s around the corner just waiting for you. We all crave that special happiness that we once had or always dreamed of getting, that when its not right in front of us at a certain time, we think that we’ll never have it. All I can say to those people, who are most certainly not alone, is to STOP thinking like that right now. It’s not over. Please believe that.
She sat there,
in a world unknown.
blinded by the truth,
beaten by the fear.
Alone.
As her eyes soaked up,
and her hands shook fast.
She was lost,
in a world unknown.
Until one day,
he came along.
Wiped those tears,
like waves on the shore,
giving her the love,
she had never gotten before.
It’s a shame to know that the once so beautiful saying “always and forever” simply translates into “until the day I get bored of you”.
When someone is going through a hard time after a break up, I want to help. I want to hear about everything, hear how they feel, hear their struggles, & then cure in every way possible. The one phrase no one wants to hear is “just be happy & move on.” Like honestly… I’m pretty fucking sure if it were that simple, they would have done that from the very beginning. Whenever you want to say that to someone, please stop and think. Put yourself in their shoes. Imagine you have just lost the best thing you’ve ever had, the thing that made you the happiest. Do you understand now? It’s not that easy. Sometimes all a broken soul needs is just that one person who will truly give a shit.
I don’t get it. People go on saying things like “I hate being single & seeing happy couples walking around all cute,” just because they want that in their life. But once they’re in a relationship, all they want to do is either give a half-ass job, turn it into some kind of “open” piece of shit, or cheat all together. Am I missing something? Call me old fashioned, but I look at a true relationship as two souls who really want to be together. Not because they feel like they need some kind of rebound or simply because they’re bored, but rather because they can’t stand to see that person with anyone else. That’s how it should be. Be with someone because you want them, you want to make them the happiest person in the world, & you want to wake up every morning with a smile on your face knowing that you’re taken by someone like no other. I just can’t stand to see these fragile hearts being broken anymore.
Still Got It - Tyga ft. Drake
I think one of the most difficult things to ever go through is to wait for someone; not even knowing if they feel the same way about you. Whether that be an ex that you’ve never lost feelings for or someone who you’ve admired from afar for ages. All that goes through your head is how funny they are, how beautiful they can be, how happy they’ve made you in the past and now. Then you start hating yourself. You keep asking yourself the same questions day after day…. “where did we go wrong?” or simply “what’s wrong with me?” You suddenly think you’re just not good enough. And the sad thing is, you can’t control it. Love is unexplainable and will give you thoughts and feelings you never thought you could ever feel. And although some feelings of love may never change, you will reach a point and say “enough is enough.” You are good enough and sooner or later, someone is going to see that. That someone is going to make you feel wonderful.
